MASS READINGS & SAINT QUOTE OF THE DAY - Tuesday - October 12, 2021

Tuesday - October 12, 2021

“Mary having co-operated in our redemption with so much glory to God and so much love for us, Our Lord ordained that no one shall obtain salvation except through her intercession.”

 

- St. Alphonsus Maria de Liguori

October 12, 2021

Tuesday of the Twenty-eighth Week in Ordinary Time
Lectionary: 468

 

Reading 1                                                     Rom 1:16-25

Brothers and sisters:

I am not ashamed of the Gospel.

It is the power of God for the salvation of everyone who believes:

for Jew first, and then Greek.

For in it is revealed the righteousness of God from faith to faith;

as it is written, “The one who is righteous by faith will live.”

 

The wrath of God is indeed being revealed from heaven

against every impiety and wickedness

of those who suppress the truth by their wickedness.

For what can be known about God is evident to them,

because God made it evident to them.

Ever since the creation of the world,

his invisible attributes of eternal power and divinity

have been able to be understood and perceived in what he has made.

As a result, they have no excuse;

for although they knew God

they did not accord him glory as God or give him thanks.

Instead, they became vain in their reasoning,

and their senseless minds were darkened.

While claiming to be wise, they became fools

and exchanged the glory of the immortal God

for the likeness of an image of mortal man

or of birds or of four-legged animals or of snakes.

 

Therefore, God handed them over to impurity

through the lusts of their hearts

for the mutual degradation of their bodies.

They exchanged the truth of God for a lie

and revered and worshiped the creature rather than the creator,

who is blessed forever. Amen.

 

Responsorial Psalm                                              19:2-3, 4-5

 

R.    (2a) The heavens proclaim the glory of God.

 

The heavens declare the glory of God,

    and the firmament proclaims his handiwork.

Day pours out the word to day,

    and night to night imparts knowledge.

R.    The heavens proclaim the glory of God.

Not a word nor a discourse

    whose voice is not heard;

Through all the earth their voice resounds,

    and to the ends of the world, their message.

R.    The heavens proclaim the glory of God.

 

Alleluia                                                                      Heb 4:12

R. Alleluia, alleluia.

The word of God is living and effective,

able to discern reflections and thoughts of the heart.

R. Alleluia, alleluia.

 

Gospel                                                                       Lk 11:37-41

 

After Jesus had spoken,

a Pharisee invited him to dine at his home.

He entered and reclined at table to eat.

The Pharisee was amazed to see

that he did not observe the prescribed washing before the meal.

The Lord said to him, “Oh you Pharisees!

Although you cleanse the outside of the cup and the dish,

inside you are filled with plunder and evil.

You fools!

Did not the maker of the outside also make the inside?

But as to what is within, give alms,

and behold, everything will be clean for you.”

 

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How to win arguments without defeating others!

In the Gospel reading for today, Jesus declares that the Pharisees were filled with plunder and evil. Some bibles translate this as "rapaciousness." To be rapacious means to covet what others have, and to live on prey. In other words, the Pharisees preyed on others, plundering what did not belong to them.

 

What were they plundering? The root cause of their legalistic emphasis on proper rituals was their covetous greed for authority. The Pharisee in today's story enjoyed pointing out what Jesus did wrong. He was trying to make himself superior to Jesus. He was coveting Christ's authority. So, to offer a cure for his greed, Jesus assigned almsgiving for a penance in case he wanted to become truly holy.

 

Jesus passionately condemns any self-righteous focus on the "wrong-doings" of others, because it puffs up the self while preying on the self-esteem of those who get scolded. Self-esteem is essential for being able to love one's self, which is absolutely necessary for being able to love others unconditionally (rather than codependently).

 

When we get into arguments and insist that we are right and our opponents are wrong, we're in a battle of winners and losers. Do we really want the other person to be a loser? Analyze your motives: Do you really want to win the argument to make your opponent a loser -- so you can feel superior -- or for the sake of helping him or her?

 

When we think we need to feel superior, it's because we can't handle being wrong due to our own low self esteem.

 

We do care about others, and so we want to help them understand the truths that we're trying to explain. However, this helpfulness is never accomplished in the heat of battle. Both sides get too defensive to let in any new insights.

 

To end the argument and bring the discussion into God's victory, we need to separate our holy goal of being helpful from our selfish goal of defending ourselves. We need to hand over to Jesus the hurt that we're feeling to let him heal us rather than expecting others to make us feel better.

 

Later, when we're alone with Jesus, we can let him build up our self-esteem as we complain to him (and only to him) about our problems. But for now, we must lay down our lives for the sake of the other person.

 

When our love becomes more evident than our need to win the argument, others begin to feel safe with us. Feeling safe, they become willing to listen. And if they also feel heard, they no longer feel threatened by the insights we share, and then they listen even more closely. However, this process can take a long time, so be patient and persistent in conveying your love.

 

Jesus doesn't want anyone to be a loser. Even when they disagree with us and we're right, he wants them to feel lifted up into the victorious realm of love, where we are all winners.

 

Today's Prayer 

Lord Jesus, Unite my heart and mind, in true charity, to serve those who need what I am or what I have, expecting nothing in exchange. Amen.

 

God Bless You.....

The Rosary Family

The mother of Jesus promised St. Dominic that, “one day through the rosary & the scapular I shall save the world!”